MARRIAGE AS GOD DIVINE INSTITUDE PART FIVE(5) COMMUNICATION AND FELLOWSHIP IN MARRIAGE

Proverb31v10-29 Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
Proverb15v1-2 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. 2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
The man should be responsible to his wife and the wife should be responsible to her husband. [Please! please!! Take every good note of this Jesus felt bad when he returns and found the apostle asleep and he said matt26 v40 And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour? 41 Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak, when you are not there for your partner when needed, it create a very bad image in your spouse heart with great damage to the family that take the grace of God to erase it. like this example, Adam was not there for Eve when the devil pressure her with autonomy questions knowing that Eve was not properly communicated to the instruction God gave her husband, here comes the devil fill the space despite the high level of love they had for themselves that Adam eat the fruit without thinking twice, if Adam carry his wife along himself there wouldn’t have being any vacuum for her trial. Listen a minute is too much for one to enchanter a test of the devil especially women who are driven by what they hear and can be attracted to all form of thought. Beloved a moment of distance can create big gape, so in whatever you are doing carry your partner along with good time of communication. (Genesis 2″:18):- The woman is the help-meet of the man, “hence she should be interested in the interests of the man, this can be infective if the man give her, her place of repent by seeking her opinion in consideration of decision making, because she is a gift of good things and favor that God matchmakers with man, hence God call her help meet so you must make her happy one that meet your help.
PRAYERS
1. Father release your oil of gladness upon my marriage in thy mighty name of Jesus
2. Oh lord expose every secret tricks of the devil in me and my partner that is resisting us of our good communication and fellowship in thy name of Jesus
3. Holy spirit break the fallow grounds of struggling in our marital life in thy name of Jesus
4. Faithful father lead us in your mercies to your place satisfaction in thy name of Jesus

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