PREMARITAL PREPERATION

Hebrews13v4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. 5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
The beginning of marital joy in couple’s to be, is their ability to know and understand their differences. Marriage is between a man and woman, never you allow people frame for you the person of your spouse learn yourselves which is the essentiality of courtship though since sex is not involve there must be irregularities especially if is of God leading, “both are different in their genetic and physiological makeup. In marriage, there is nothing like compatibility, compatibility is worked out. Your home can never have peace when ignoring the reality that you and your spouse are different. You want it hot, he wants it cold; she wants it bright, you want it dark; you want the toothpaste pressed from the bottom, he does it from the middle.”
Many a time, your spouse is the opposite of you, this is meant to compliment and not to disconnect you. I was a pastor in redeem my wife a worker before we eventually got married we were as two paralee line never agreed not want to see me or pick my calls with so much contrary persons within us who orchestrated high level of hatred between us that make it worst for us to understand ourselves that threatened our conviction of God choice of we getting married because God promote his will He show forth his mighty hands and help us get married today we can say thank God for helping us not missing it by his grace we are at peace praise God for his faithfulness. Never attack difference, you will never know peace if you do. Nothing is wrong with difference; if you don’t understand each other, it is because you don’t understand your difference. Your difference is your uniqueness,.When you are swayed off Love-Course because of your spouse’s difference, you lack wisdom for marriage. Celebrate your spouse’s difference assist him or her in love with deep encourage to unify both difference this will bring divine bond and focus more on his or her strength. Both spouses should agree on complimenting yourselves and do your best to resolve all issue before going to bed to uphold God word 2Thessalonians3v16 Now the Lord of peace himself give you peace always by all means. The Lord be with you all. Hence the lord find you guilty. Malachi2v13-15, 13 And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand. 14 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant 15- And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
PRAYERS
1.Oh lord help all intending marital and married spouse fall on your fatal ground in Jesus name
2. Oh lord gives all spouse wisdom to lay down their individual differences to behold the marital goals in thy mighty name of Jesus
3. Holy spirit help us to uproot contrary men out of our marital lands in thy name of Jesus

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